whitedelias:

vifeovdaoure:

My body is not who I am. I am my soul, my heart, my brain, my morals, my beliefs. I am my actions. And I feel sorry for the people who look at me and just judge me because I’m fat. But you know what? Look at me, call me fat, because I don’t care. Fat is not the worst thing somebody can be, ugly is not the worst thing somebody can be. The worst thing somebody can be is low enough to make someone feel like they don’t even belong here because they don’t “fit in.” Let me tell you something about fitting in. You may not fit in with one group, whatever fitting in means, but you’ll fit in with somebody else. One person may not think you’re beautiful, but somebody else will. And one person may not want to fall in love with you but somebody else will, and there is somebody out there thinking about you wanting to be with you, and that’s the beautiful thing about life. It’s like the biggest oxymoron there is. Life is not meant to be lived wishing you were someone else, that’s the biggest waste of time. You are all beautiful and you deserve the life you want.

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I’ve seen this video and to me, looking at her body disgusts me; not because I’m a shallow, judgmental person and she doesn’t have the ideal body “society shoves down our throats”, but because it’s so ridiculously unhealthy. Unless she has some sort of disorder, she has chosen to be that way through extreme unhealthy eating and lack of exercise. It disgusts me that she and other people like her live that way. God has given you a body and yes you should embrace and love it and accept it as they will come in the many different shapes and sizes that we see, but it is also your job to TAKE CARE OF IT and this girl is clearly not doing that. We need to stop patting this girl on the back for deciding to live proudly with this obesity. Why? For the reasoning behind my little rant, read this article: http://kidshealth.org/teen/food_fitness/dieting/obesity.html

“I’ve seen this video and to me, looking at her body disgusts me; not because I’m a shallow, judgmental person…”

Uh okay. No. This girl isn’t at a weight where she’s about to drop dead because she can’t breathe because her organs are being crushed. She’s around like 180 or 190 lbs. Her body doesn’t disgust you because you actually care about her health (lol); it disgusts you because you are indeed shallow and would rather look at a 90 pound girl than a 190 pound one, society does that to you. Obviously we should take care of our bodies so that we are healthy and have the opportunity to live longer but she said herself on her tumblr that she was going to pursue losing weight to be healthy, for herself. You don’t know her and you don’t know why she is the way she is or why she is the weight she is. It surprises me that, even after watching the video and hearing about how self-conscious she used to be and what it made her do, you continue to make such an ignorant comment. It’s people like you that need to get educated. Take your elementary school article and kindly step off.

OMG YES THIS.

I can only speak for my personal health, but I know that now my body is physically healthier than it EVER was at the “ideal” I was when I was younger. YOU HAVE NO FUCKING CLUE how healthy someone is by looking at them. Being “ideal” forced me to undergo surgeries. It destroyed my enamel. It made me pass out in random places, bruise incredibly easily, stop menstruating, stop having the physical energy to do much of anything really. Well, anything but “look ideal and healthy” which is really shit all and doesn’t make any sense nor was it anything more than a facade. 

According to that rude and ignorant commenter, my body may be more “unhealthy” now. What the fuck would they know, and why do they care. 

Unless you are a trained medical professional who is personally examining each person you judge, you really have no idea about their “health”. So check yourself. You take care of what you love. So if you ‘really’ care about them taking care of themselves, regardless, then you would preach self love as hard as you can. But you aren’t doing that, are you? So you destroy your own point right at the initial argument you are creating. Why? Because you are stupid. And stupid people tend to create arguments that don’t make sense, because they speak without the knowledge to back up whatever filth they are throwing out into my airspace. 

Whoever this (op) girl  is, respect and love towards you! <3 Self love is the first step towards everything. Because, as we’ve seen, people who have problems with themselves will try to take it out on you. And you just have to ignore it, ignore it and you’ll realize it is just noise.